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This Spread is Best For
Arguments, tension, misunderstandings, repair.
A willingness to be honest about your part.
What You'll Need
Step-by-Step Method
Pull 4 cards in a line.
Card Positions
What’s really triggering me
What they might be feeling
What would calm this
My best next response
Questions & Prompts
What am I protecting?
What needs acknowledgement?
My Signature Twist
Card 4 is a tone choice (soft, direct, delayed, boundary). Use it to pick how you respond.
What To Do Next
Wait 10 minutes before responding and re-read Card 4.
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